No Hate Like Christian Love
Both my parents were brought up in devote Christian environments, particularly at school – my mother attended a convent school and my father was sent to a catholic boarding school for boys run by priests and monks. This was in the 1940s and 50s, at a time when discipline was favoured over nurturing and students who struggled academically were punished rather than helped. My mother recalled being frequently picked on by the nuns who called her stupid when she made mistakes, and smacked her knuckles with a wooden ruler when she struggled to pay attention. My father who was orphaned at seven, received far greater abuse from the monks at his school who didn’t recognise or understand that he was autistic and beat him black and blue because he struggled to sit still in class and saw his unruly behaviour as misbehaving and undisciplined. My father didn’t go into detail about what happened to him at that school and I wonder if there was more to it than that. Being that this was at a time...